Intimacy Resources

Intimacy, Touch, Sex Ed, & Mindfulness Resources

***For all of these: take what is useful; leave the rest!  Follow your intuition about what might speak to & serve you at this time.

Classical Tantra


Urban Tantra (book), by Barbara Carrellas

Emotional Intimacy

Conscious Communication

Sex Education

*these books are geared towards women AND would HIGHLY benefit anyone who LOVES a woman!  🙂

Sensual/Sex Education & Events in Seattle

The Pan Eros Foundation (Calendar)

Sensual Touch

Mastering Your Erotic Energy – Taoist wisdom from Mantak Chia

Consent and Boundaries

Polyamory/Ethical Nonmonogamy 

Conscious Creation

Manifesting a Partner

Understanding Trauma

Mindfulness (to develop a calmer mind at all times, including the intimate ones)

My Reading List:

Recent Reads:

Scarcity Brain by Michael Easter
The Comfort Crisis by Michael Easter
A Life of Being, Having, and Doing Enough by Wayne Muller
The Happiness Project by Gretchen Rubin
Tuesdays with Morrie by Mitch Albom

Currently reading:

Sex, Death, and Tantra by Ed Swaya

On deck:

Kali Rising: Foundational Principles of Tantra for a Transforming Planet by Rudolph Ballentine, MD

Other Integrous and Talented Practitioners

Sacred Eros: Practitioners throughout the U.S. & Europe

Ava Ananda (California, Nashville)

Rogue Ryder:
Queering Tantra (Seattle)

Charlie: Sex Educator & Practitioner
(Seattle base,
Zoom sessions available)

Hands-on work:

Certified Sexological Bodywork
International Directory
in Seattle


Sacred Womb Services – Holistic Pelvic Care (personal recommendation)

Somatic Trauma Therapy Counseling (hands-off):

About Somatic Experiencing
Somatic Experiencing Directory

Snuggly Resources

Snuggly Organizations

Recommended Professional Cuddlists in Seattle (strictly platonic, please read the Cuddlist Code of Conduct prior to booking)

  • Anna Joy, Certified Cuddlist, Certified Somatic Experiencing Practitioner