For Men

*See my Offerings for Everyone for Current Video, Phone, and In-Person Sessions.

Let It All Go

Are you constantly making decisions all day long?  Responsible for everything?  Let me take you on a journey…

Learn more about an Experiential or a Sensation Play session.

Master Your Erotic Energy

Want to know how to “last longer?”  75% of men who see me do!  I’m well-versed at guiding:

    • Spreading out intense, localized sensations throughout your whole body
    • Getting you out of your head (with all the stress-inducing thoughts!) and into your body
    • Navigating riding the waves of arousal, and being able to “come back down” whenever you choose

A foundational training that your lover/s will thank you for.

+ Bonus: I have written a “Takeaways” doc. I can send you after our session, so you a) don’t have to remember everything in the moment/can have more mental bandwidth while *in it* & b) have reminders of frameworks & practices to return to at home.

To be clear: *Mastering* your energy will not happen in one session; *Introduction* to how your energy works, and skills to work with it that would *lead* to mastery are available here.  But/& as with any skill, it needs to be *practiced* (just like you weren’t just taught the alphabet & then could write a novel the next day).

If you find that you are baffled by how your energy flows (too quickly, erratically, inaccessible, etc.), my highest recommendation is to do one of the following:

Commit to multiple sessions with seasoned practitioner/s (e.g. myself and/or Somatica &/or Certified Sexological Bodyworkers, for varying perspective & approaches).  See which resonate the most with you – which *work*! – & then sign up for a couple/few more practice sessions with them.

Commit to “home-play” – definitely with yourself (where it’s easiest to track & then adjust stimulus & response, with immediate feedback!), and additionally with a partner or playmate if you have one.  Prioritize, and then *put time in your calendar.*  (If it’s scheduled, it’s real.)  

Accessible Next Step: Read & work through the practices of The Multiorgasmic Man by (Taoist Tantric Master) Mantak Chia.

*90min. minimum; 2hrs. highly recommended.

Is it ED or Other....?

Worried about ED (Erectile Dysfunction)*?  

There’s a lot of stress for men to “perform,” and a lot of misinformation about ED, to support sales of Viagra and other “performance-enhancing drugs.”  Yes, it’s true that, as you age, you won’t be as your sexual peak at age 18, BUT… Over my 12 years of experience, I’ve found that 95% of men worried about ED are actually simply overstressed, head-tripping, and/or haven’t given themselves enough time and space for their bodies to relax enough to feel their innate passion and virility.

Come and explore what your body is really capable of, given a good “container of time” and an environment of love and acceptance.  

*ED can be caused by a variety of factors, including interactions with prescription drugs, depression, obesity, sleeping disorders, alcoholism, surgery around the spinal base, etc.  Please consult your doctor for possible contributing issues and treatments.

If you’re interested in discovering if your challenges are mostly mental &/or stress-related, I encourage you to reach out, and have a reality-check via my capable hands (backed by my compassionate heart)…

*90min. minimum; 2-2.5hrs. highly recommended.

P-Spot Pleasure (“Sacred Spot” Touch)

For Newbies:

Did you know that men have a male equivalent of a G-Spot? 

Or that men are capable of experiencing full-body ecstasy, just like women? 

There are THOUSANDS of nerve endings in the prostate.   Stimulating them can lead to a lot of good things, both pleasure-ful and healing.  I await the time that health insurance covers prostate massage…

If this is your first time approaching your Sacred Spot, please know that I consider it a high honor to engage with this intimate work.  P-spot exploration often can be emotionally vulnerable, riddled with shame and/or cultural judgments – due to its location, religious stories, and meaning-making about sexual orientation – and associated tension due to all of this. 

Subsequently, my introductory approach is gentle and slow, with all the full-body relaxation, localized relaxation of the surrounding muscles, clear communication, and sensitivity that this journey deserves.  And all of this is matched with your most well-known center for pleasure, which both relaxes the whole body, and allows for the potential of mind-blowing pleasure that P-spot + lingam stimulation may afford…  

“I’ll try anything twice…”

If you’ve had a lackluster experience under clumsy or “shocker” fingers, come – let me introduce you to a kinder, gentler, and much more fulfilling way!

For Happy Veterans of P-Play

If you already know this is your jam, come see how 17yrs. of experience runs through me…

*90min. minimum; 2hrs. highly recommended.