Whether You're Seeking Sensational Escape,
sweet TLC, hands-on sex-ed, expert advice, or a jump-start for your relationship, each of my sessions is tailored to your needs. I invite you to explore my offerings and see which one might fit you like a glove!
Experiential Session (an excellent introductory session)
Let me take you on a journey…
We’ll begin by letting go of the mundane world — getting out of our heads and into our bodies in this present moment — through awareness, breath, and sensations…
You’ll receive a progression of “flavors” of touch, from grounding to therapeutic, to light, sensual touch, to relax your body and increase circulation – enlivening your whole body. I’ll then integrate your lower chakras, using tools from the Body Electric School and Amara Karuna‘s Sacred Pelvic Healing Massage. Yummm…
Emotional Intimacy Training
Want to become a better love-er? (as in, One Who Loves and Is Loved?). You may be amazed at how much more connected you may feel – to yourself and your partner – when you can tap into and speak from your authentic heartspace…
In this (fully-clothed/snuggly) training, you’ll be guided into:
- dropping into your heart to speak and listen more deeply
- tapping into sensations and emotions – and weaving them together with thoughts, to communicate more holistically
- relaxing deeply before and while sharing “higher-stakes”/”riskier” material like fears and desires
Centered on the Belly2Belly work of David Cates (a combination of Tantra, Pranayama (breathwork), & neurobiology (Polyvagal Theory), with influences from Holistic Peer Counseling, Nonviolent Communication, and The Relationship School.
Touch Training Session
Are you wondering:
- How can I tell if they like my touch?
- How do I show them what I like?
- How can I pave the way to bring my lover into a state of true ecstasy?
In a Touch Training session, we can practice giving and receiving touch (within our respective boundaries). I will share my compassionate feedback about how I am receiving your touch, energy, and communication, and you’ll have practice time to hone your touch, awareness, and skills!
2hrs. minimum if this would be our first session together
90min. minimum if we have worked with each other before
And if you’re looking for more in-depth exploration with your partner, I recommend a Couples Session.
Sensation Play Session
(available in Boston, Nashville, and Seattle)
Let’s start with undeniably NICE – “25 Shades of Light & Fluffy”/”French Vanilla”
Consider feathers: lovely, sweet, softer than any fingerpads. A flogger can be used to sensually traipse across the skin, or the softest dear leather twirled over your back, like a mini-car-wash but sweeter. Or a paint brush, “kissing” your neck & ear… I have an extensive variety of toys that can be introduced to your skin in super-kind ways that allow for the nerve endings to become “curious,” enlivened, and delighted.
If you’d like to lightly and gently “spice up” your Experiential session but/& are either scared of anything that might possibly be construed as pain OR you’ve tried “harder” stuff & know it’s not your taste! – feel free to ask for some “Nice Sensation Play” to be added into the mix; it’d be my pleasure. 🙂
In a Sensation Play session, you can:
- Experience total let-go.
- Explore a wide array of sensations.
- Focus entirely on receiving and on your pleasure.
FULL-SPECTRUM DISCOVERY –
In Tantra, there is no “good” or “bad,” just sensation…
“Am I really kinky on the inside, or just fascinated by it?” There’s a way to find out…
Not sure what you like & what you don’t?
This is time to play with a variety of sensations — feathery to spiky, soft to hard, hot, cold, “percussion play,” “impact play,” etc… — with nuance, suspense, surprise… dance with the edges of “pleasure” & “pain.”
Let your body be your guide in telling you what is actually *pleasurable* or not…
BEING BLINDFOLDED – VISUAL DEPRIVATION
You may want to play with a blindfold to increase suspense and because, by removing one sense, all others are heightened.
BONDAGE
Or you may want to play with being restrained — for the person who is in charge of everything in their life, to let go of control can be a precious gift. (I have fuzzy wrist & ankle handcuffs for comfortable bondage.)
IMPACT PLAY
This is the stingy/thuddy/potentially “ow-ey” play – which may include spanking (with ample “warming” of the skin to bring the blood to the surface of the skin, prepare it for more intensity, and reduce the chances of any “marking”), upping the force behind floggers, paddles, etc.
If you know you are interested in exploring impact play, let me know in advance, and we’ll schedule to be in the fully sound-proofed dungeon-y space I have available to me.
Please consider if you have any trauma associated with spanking, being hit, pain, etc. My offering is intended to be in the realm of “fun” & “play!” I have no interest in retraumatizing. While there are talented and trained dommes who may lead you through a therapeutic catharsis session, I am not that person. See my FAQ, “Do you work with trauma?”
IN A SAFER* CONTAINER
I work with a set of nuanced “safe words” to map where your “edges” are, get spicier or less spicy, and/or stop if you need, at any point.
*I use the word “safer” vs. “safe” because no one can define your sense of safety – just like no one can “make you feel” anything. That being said, I’ll do my darndest to create the safest playground for our exploration – with high levels of awareness, clear communication, quality tools & toys & care all ‘round.
*Please note this is a relatively “light” offering, as Dark Tantra goes. I do not offer role play, fetish play, dress-up, or more extreme forms of play; if you seek more, a BDSM domme would better serve you.
A note for advanced subs: I’m not into being “topped from the bottom.” Nuf said.
These sessions are appropriate for first-time explorers, as well as connoisseurs, so long as expectations are in alignment with all that is described above.
Advanced request for these sessions is required, ‘cuz props/setup.
(a.k.a. Don’t wait until we are in a different session type to request any of this! Speak up upon scheduling so I may be prepared for you.)